Seven years ago I was trying to figure out if my dad was safe. He was set to fly home from a business trip in Boston. News was spreading slowly through my high school and I knew I had to know for sure.
My mom had started a new job a week or two before and I didn’t know her phone number but somehow, that morning my fingers dialed what they needed to dial to give me piece of mind. My subconscious grabbed onto some business card I saw in passing to give me a small victory to make that morning a little less terrifying.
We certainly weren’t in the middle of it all, but not having my dad home safe made it hit just that much closer to home. My mom spent the next few days at work making sure that passengers on diverted flights would have the shelter and supplies they needed until they could return home to their loved ones.
We ate dinner in stunned silence on the back deck with friends visiting from Europe just trying to make sense of it all.
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Oh god….that’d be like reading Chicken Soup for Sad Puppies.
WHY WOULD YOU TAKE THAT OUT?
Haha nice manouvre!
OMG I’ve been reading Chicken Soup For the Adopted Soul…
that sh*t makes you cry.
Why did I get it out of the library? I do not know.
I’m adopted but that’s no reason to be a corny mofo!
Deflect? That’s what nice people do, right?
I usually get on my soapbox and spew leftist noncomformist awesomeness.
I’m rubber and you’re glue.
Lol, wow.
They don’t need to know your business anyway
Deflecting is always good. I’m pretty sure that is why I have siblings–sure, I may have gotten myself in hot water, but hey! Did you hear about what HE did?
Adopting must be difficult, well, getting chosen as parents (according to Monica and Chandler)
How about that?
There are a lot of babies whose parents suck in the third world..you can be like Brangelina!
Or, if you don’t think changing diapers will be awesome, you can adopt a grown up baby, with green eyes and brown hair, a bit chubby but sweet as hell, bilingual and with an Italian name.
Deflection is the best way.
I get asked by random strangers (mostly cab drivers) why I’m not married yet. It’s awkward.
I’m just totally rude with the whole, “How long have y’all been married? Any babies yet?” thing.
It enrages me.
None of your business!
I need to learn to deflect.
I need to know some deflection tips. Everyone and their dog is asking us when we’re going to get knocked up. When is it anyone else’s business?!?!
I’m with Maxie. If I get pregnant, you can have it.
deflection is the best way. nice work.
We use the “what in the name…was Beyonce wearing at….” escape strategy from tricky questions. It’s safe, reliable and highly debatable. Perfect to deflect.
smart, smart move.
Deflecting is my way of life.
I love a good deflection. It always comes in handy.
I’m the perpetually single friend, so I say tell me to mind my own business. Heheh.
Anyone in a serious relationship must learn the art of deflection. It’s necessary for survival.
You’re definitely younger than I am. And not a woman. So just imagine how everyone is all on my ass…”So when are you going to have a baby?” To which I respond, “Well, Mom, I thought I’d try to find a husband first. Maybe a boyfriend.”
I think I’ll learn from you. Next time, I’ll say, “So mom, how’s YOUR sex life?” Creepy but I’m pretty sure she’d drop it.
Wow! I love how you stealthily snuck the “we’re thinking about thinking about adoption” into your blog. (Congrats!)
I’m a big fan of deflecting, though.
Adopting is expensive. This is why I plan on stealing kids when the nesting urge strikes.
And after watching the wee Slumdog stars being interviewed on the red carpet last night, three of them may very well be small Indian children.
I like Narm’s duck and weave. But I’d stick and move.
Hahahahahah!!! I love Maxie.
I’d give you my baby but I’ve become rawther attached to the little bugger.
I’ll lend you my uterus though. I’ll have some space for rent soon.
And yes. Deflecting is always the best option.
I always deflect. I’m in the ring shopping category, or rather the “why are you engaged yet?” category. To which I usually respond with, “so and so, you’ve been married for a while… when are you having babies?”
Deflect as much as possible. Usually right back at the person who asked you.
If I ever get pregnant you can have my baby.
I’m not sure what quality it will be… but i mean it will probably have 10 fingers and 10 toes.
probably.
You’ve almost managed to even deflect the topic by directly blogging about it, too! That takes talent, kid. You’ll be a great parent when the time comes, I’m sure.
lol Deflection is a good thing.
So wait – you’re actually serious about adoption being something to look into shortly? How far into your future is this, do you guys think?
Duck and weave, duck and weave.
Deflection, much??
Anyway, you’re like, very young. You have every right.
I’m all for deflecting … back to the person who asked the question. No?
Yes yes. Deflect.
Deflection is what it’s all about. Good call.