A terribly shaky video of my dog wearing horrible boots has officially been viewed over 1,000 times. Somehow, I feel this is a sign of the apocalypse – the fact that I have the time to record and promote videos of my pooch and the fact that hundreds of people feel the need to watch them.
[For fans, I'm trying for a new video of Calvin and Tofu during their playdate on Sunday.]
As for the little man, I took him for a 5k power walk this morning, played fetch for a solid 30 minutes, and just got back from an hour at the dog park and he’s still keyed up. The first person to find me a vendor of dog-sized hamster exercise balls will make my life so much easier.
Tired and lazy today. About to junk out with good friends and hack away at the leftover snacks and drinks from last night. Why waste a freshly cleaned apartment? Wit and hilarity on hiatus until later this weekend…
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gave me the chills. lovely written post.
Ashley: Despite all its gritty, ugly moments, yeah…overall it really is pretty amazing.
EssentiallyMe: Me too!
EP: You’ve got that right!
Kyla: Agreed. How is married life anyway?
Here here!! For whenever your facebook status changes, and for now =)
Aww, Ben! This is so sweet. I’m so happy things are going well for y’all. Having such a wonderful relationship is truly a blessing.
Happy relationships make me feel happy!
I still love your relationship even more.
This made made me a little teary eyed, if I’m completely honest. I think love is beautiful.
I love all your points, especially the one about getting married for you, not because you feel you have to. And thinking that it will change your relationship. Almost made me tear up!
Kyle says when you are finally ready to take the leap, he is going to buy you the tackiest wedding gift possible. Picture the leg lamp from A Christmas Story.
I suggest not inviting him.
This is great for several reasons:
1. I can tell you honestly just love being with each other
2. You don’t feel pressure from anyone/society/blabla BS and therefore will marry when you’re ready
3. I completely agree with not getting married because you think you “should”. Worst. Reason. Ever.
4. I heart you
Awwwwww Ben… I think that’s what every partner in the world wants to hear.
Plus, you’re AWFULLY young. You still have a lond road ahead!!
The downside of being this late to such a great post is that all the good comments are taken and I’m left to ditto all the ‘i love this’ and ‘i’m so happy for you!’, which of course, I do free but it doesn’t sound as great when everyone else has said it. On the plus side, being this late in commenting means that not as many people are going to read this ramble. So at least there is that. Seriously though? I DID love this and I AM so happy for you.
no really, do you know how much $ I have spent getting rid of my cavities and then you post this stuff?!
Sweet stuff man
That’s wonderful. Really, you’re lucky to have found someone that means so much to you that you’re willing to say those things and make no bones about it. I’m very happy for you.
I’m glad things are going great for you guys! It’s so sweet. You are too cute!
Hope it only gets better and better… 
Wait, so you’re married or no? I’m confused.
Ooh, string cheese. Gotta go.
This is perfect and adorable. It’s true, in relationships, booksmarts can only get us so far. But it’s commitment and love that get us further. I love this post. You two are the best.
Wow… I need to remember that for the next couple I do premarital counseling with. If they can look at that and say that they honestly feel that way, then they are probably REALLY ready to get married.
Very insightful and sweet. And makes me sad that I never felt that way before I got married. (Which is probably why I’m divorced!)
You definitely have your head and your heart in the right place. It must feel really good!
And so true about Facebook relationship status – like it’s not official if it’s not on Facebook!
Lovely. I’m in the same place.
all of your reasons to get married really hit home for me, especially in regards to my ex.
any chance you’d think about teaching semniar for straight guys?
cuz seriously? they could use the help.
I don’t believe there’s any other reason to marry than love. True, unadulterated love.
But then again, I’ve never been married….
I love this post.
Good for you, love!
Well said, too.
21 years here—-and that’s something I’m VERY proud of…..not many people marry forever anymore.
Marry forever…it’s worth it.
Also, I got a dachshund this weekend. I have a herd now, just not of all dachshunds……
What is it with teachers thinking they can control us like unruly kids in science class? I may act like a seventh grader at times, but I will beat you if you try to treat me like one.
*ends rant*
A wonderful relationship is something to appreciate. Keep in mind, while the act of marriage will not change your relationship, your commitment to each other will. It’s a beautiful and amazing thing.
Very well said. And very sweet.
so sweet! i’m glad all is well w/you and the newf
That last point really resonated for me this summer. Since having to be apart now that I’m back in school for the semester, I’ve found that aspect both incredibly helpful in terms of support, and incredibly difficult in terms of the distance between us. But in the end, I know it’s worth it.
i heart you.
Hahaha nice edit… and congratulations anyway!
Awww.
Or something.
Always marry for love. ALWAYS.
Unless the guy is wicked old and wicked rich.
THEN you marry for money.
Great post full of revelation. You deserve to be happy and in a strong relationship!
I wish more people would follow guidelines like these before approaching marriage. I’ve always thought that the question “How’s married life?” was the dumbest one ever, because to tell the truth, it’s not much different from enagaged/living-together life. Well, except now I am responsible for his taxes too… Anyway, lovely words!
awe, that’s fantastic!
I have to admit, marriage is awesome! …especially when you do it for all the right reasons.
It’s only been several days since I start reading your blog. But I could tell how you feel about your relationship. It is beautifully written and honest. Marriage can be very difficult and you costantly have to work at it. Glad to know that you’re happy – good luck!!!
Beautiful post!
Great lessons learned. These are some of the things I’ve learned, too, although in my case it’s to apply to the next relationship. Good post.
Aw, I love you guys! Is that weird. Never met either of you, never even “spoken” to the newf, and yet I love you both? I am so glad that you guys are so happy.
Those are really beautiful words. So many people today are in relationships for all the wrong reasons. I’m glad things are going great. . .
And congrats?
Beautifully written, i’m glad things are going well for you guys!!
I’m glad things are going so well, Ben
Awww, that is so sweet! I’m jealous!
BTW, you seriously are too adorable!